Monday, February 09, 2009
To find out or NOT TO
So tomorrow is the big day.....the big ultrasound day. I am now 20 weeks and Brent and I have been debating whether or not we are going to find out. Brent thinks it would be so fun to keep it a surprise because we already have boy and girl stuff. Me on the other hand, well I have lost all spontaneity and find it hard to not know. I just feel like I connect more and so does Brent if we know what we are having, but I've never not known so I can't compare. So I thought I'd post on here and get your opinion. What have you all done and what have you liked????? Should we find out or not?
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You are going to find out in the end anyways! what is another 20 weeks without knowing?
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Hey Amber its me Alli.. Keesha's cousin.. I had a surprise with my first and foud out with my second. I loved having the surprise.. It was so neet when they announced what the sex of the baby was. I have to admit though it was very hard towards the end not knowing.
So I have not heard from you guys in a while and I know I have been bad too. I hope that you do not find out and have a big suprise. Anyways I can not beleive how big the kids are getting and how much I miss them, ok I miss you and Brent too. 4 more weeks and I will be home for a visit and we plan on staying in Boise for a couple nights. So be ready for dinner and swimming. Love you guys.
Do it! Do it!
If you don't find out can I at least know!!!!! You already know where I stand on the patience issue
I think you should find out. Then you can prepare more.
Hmmm. Brent sounds like Paul....He didn't want to find out with our 4th and somehow he got me to agree. We found out with the first three. It was pretty much torture for me. I hated not knowing, but then I'm the type that has to know everything before hand. I ALWAYS know what I'm getting for Christmas, even though Paul thinks he is sneaky, I always find out somehow...I just don't do surprises. It was a very sweet moment to have the Dr. announce, but really I was in pain and exhausted and I would have thought it was sweet if they told me it was a monkey....That being said, Paul really wanted the surprise, and it was fun for him, and if he really begged I would probably give in again....
This is my dilemma also. No, I am not pregnant or trying. Just to clear the air on that! HAHA I always think maybe it would be fun to have a suprise if we had one of each. Buuuuuuuuuut, it's so fun to shop and feel connected. oh I don't knwo!
OH MY GOSH my sister finds out tomorrow too that is just crazy!!! Good luck either way boy or girl he/she is going to be just as cute as the two you have now!!
I dunno i've thought about it if i ever have another (not to find out) but if it was gonna be a girl i'd wanna prepare with new headbands, etc. i dunno and i always wanna shop cuz my old baby clothes aren't as in style as a few years ago? i dunno have fun
I could never do it but because you have one of each I think you should wait. I had a friend that did and it was her first she swears she will never find out after how much fun it was. Anyway I am sure you already know what your doing. I am excited.
you are finding out!!!! or at least you are going to get a picture of the goods and leave it to the aunties to know whos in there!! love you. one of my good friends is preggos and its there first and they are being surprised and is driving us all mad!!! I dont do surprises so if we were to have another one we would find out thats just how I role.
Hey Amber i dont know if you found out or not but i know Ryan wanted to wait and i couldnt handle not knowing. I had said if we already had one of each i would have waited but i dont know if i really would have. i just love being prepared!
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